When Should You be in a Relationship?

May exact na time o edad ba? Sa tingin ko naman wala, pero I think everybody needs a criteria just so we can avoid making mistakes.

Disclaimer: These are my personal opinions. This is how I think right now. I've never been into a relationship, so this is from a point of view of an NBSB.

For me, may dalawang pinaka importanteng bagay, among others, na dapat iconsider sa tuwing papasok ka sa isang relationship.

Una, Love and pangalawa, Maturity,

Love, kasi bakit ka naman papasok sa isang relationship diba kung hindi mo mahal yung isang tao?
Maturity, kasi sa tingin ko hindi enough na mahal nyo LANG ang isa't isa. Kasi ang relationship naman hindi solely pinapatakbo ng love yan.

Syempre dadaan kayo sa mga pagsubok, awayan, tampohan at iba pa. You need to understand each other every time na may pinagdadaanan kayo and you also need to keep up with each other's emotion and moods.

Magagawa mo lang ang bagay na yun kung matured kana. Yung hindi yung sarili mo lang yung iniisip mo, kasi if you are in a relationship, DALAWA na kayo. Sa bawat disiyon ng isa apektado ang isa.

Another this is, priority, You need to know your priorities. Para sa akin anman hindi niyo kailangan na iprioritize parati ang isa't isa. Kasi may mga panahon na you need to choose between him/her. you studies/work, friends, family and yourself. Let me just say that you don't have to choose him/her every single time but you have to at least  explain the reasons behind your decision and if that person truly loves you? she/he'll understand.


I am writing this to emphasize LOVE and MATURITY in a relationship and to encourage everyone not to enter into a relationship if you are not ready. You might just end up ruining each other, and that'd be tragic.


Big deal kasi sa akin ang pagpasok sa isang relationship, para sa akin kasi hindi ito isang bagay na ginagawang trial and error nalang ng basta basta na lang. Kaya sometimes hindi ko maintindinhan kung bakit ang dali lang para sa ibang tao na makipagrelasyon at makipaghiwalay.

I firmly believe that your relationship's goal is to spend the rest of your life with that someone. Kasi, If marriage is not your goal then why are you in a relationship? You are just wasting your time and effort among other things.